The Wise Decision (Part 2)

So, let's continue with our story.....

In that tensed moment, I took a deep breath and closed my eyes for 5 seconds. Yes, I felt disappointed that I have failed in my call of duty. Nevertheless, God's spirit spurred me to continue the session with the younger ones. My boys and I had a long conversation after that. They were reprimanded and apologised. We prayed together and asked God to create in us a thirst and hunger for God's word.

During bedtime, I asked my little girl how she felt about the episode that morning. "I feel sorry for you, mum." Wow, she can feel for me! God is so good. Boy, am I glad that I have made a wise decision that morning.

Our children can fail us in many ways. When that happens, let us re-channel our focus on those who need us just as much. May it be your other children in line or your spouse.

DO NOT RESENT AND LABEL THEM UNGRATEFUL BRATS!! (That's a trap)

Ephesians 4: 26 - In you anger, do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.

The Wise Decision (Part 1)

During a session of bible reading with the children, 2 of them walked out. They didn't like to be seated and told what to do. How would you react? You may decide to yell, "Sit down, do you hear me? Or you will get disciplined soon." Then, march out to get this settled. Or decide to continue with the session in anger and bitterness.

At this very moment, the younger ones were very quiet. Their faces clearly showed that they wanted to continue hearing the bible story.

I truly struggled with making the right decision. But I finally made it. Before I reveal it, would you share what a wise decision would be?

Dream, dream, dream

Oh....if only I could turn back the clock and be 20 again. Or maybe 30 again. There is so much that I wished I could have done and, got it done better. I thought of being an award-winning director, a cheerleader, and a top athlete.

Wish no more, my friend. But rather, let these be our dreams from this day onwards.

The Christmas play performed in December 2008 was a dream came true when I was able to help direct the play. In the play, I had 2 of my children involved. They were thrilled. You couldn't imagine how much they hoped to shine and excel in this. They worked hard and had fun. I soon realised that I was passing my dream to them.

Do you have a dream? Or do you merely dream that your children have dreams to be doctors, lawyers and engineers?

Joel 2:28 - (The Lord says) I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daugthers will prophesy, your old man will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.